“Teen Pregnancy is a Good Thing”


I made a grave mistake this morning. As I was trolling on some feminist blog sites, I found the article “Will the teen mom shaming ever stop?” Like a train wreck, I couldn’t look away.

Apparently, May is “National Teen Pregnancy Prevention Month”. The images are below, but the ridiculousness is clearly in the text. It seems as though the author is upset by the apparent insinuation that mother’s can’t change the world. Wrong. I believe the message depicted is targeted at teen mom’s not changing the world. Which is a substantial claim. The blogger is also upset about the particular comments about the cost of raising a baby because it doesn’t matter what age you are, it’s still expensive a raise a baby. We all know this is true, but how many teenagers do you know that make enough money to support themselves WITHOUT a baby?

This brings me to my confusion with feminists. There are so many types yet they don’t adequately identify themselves. There are those that don’t see ‘sex’ at all and define women as the same as men, despite a few physical differences. We can think of them as the ‘feminist jihadists’. There are the feminists who believe that career trumps family, these are the ‘orthodox feminists’. And there are the feminists who simply think that they are always right regardless of topic. These are the ‘feminist ignoramuses’. (Point of information: the word ‘feminist’ separates you from being a ‘male’ equal just by default use of the term.) All types wear pant suits.

Despite the ‘type’ of feminism said blogger is aligned with, I can come up with several hypocritical and contradictory notions based off of just these few statements.
1). If the idea of feminism promotes the idea of being career oriented and not being in the home,
2.) Weren’t they the same people lobbying to have Plan B Emergency Contraception available over-the-counter to young girls?
3.) Teenagers engaging in sexual activity is not about love. (They may think it is, but it is not.) That means that the acts are simply meaningless, experiments on account of both parties. Doesn’t this also contradict the idea of respecting women and making people aware of your ‘value’?
4.) Feminists want women to be career-driven and independent. At what point would a teen mother be independent if she can’t afford to care for her child and herself and is pushed to collect social benefits?
5.) Why are we upset about discouraging children from having children?

Being a mother is supposed to be a heart-warming experience (until they hit the teenage years, of course). Being a teenager is supposed to be fun and about finding yourself. You can’t find yourself if you’re caring for a baby. These advertisements are not about shaming, they are about prevention. Hence the name of the awareness month: National Teen Pregnancy Prevention Month. The reality is that teenage pregnancy DOES affect the outcomes of your life. And if you’re doing it alone, as feminists would expect, that creates even more hardship. It’s time that feminists stop looking for problems when there aren’t any. They are lookin’ for love in all the wrong places.

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3 thoughts on ““Teen Pregnancy is a Good Thing”

  1. Aisa

    I had this idiotic argument with my husband who had kids young and was advising his 10 year old not to wait till he was old like 28 to have kids. My hubby is a childish idiot that thinks it better to have them young so you can get a good job when you’re old. Something about older people not being able to spend time with their kids because of their good jobs. I’m wondering what happens to teenagers kids. Do they have around the clock supervision? What about work for them? Do they suddenly all work from home? ….. I told you it was idiotic. Lol. You’re so right, the argument for it is pure stupidity.

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  2. Lil Chez

    I had this idiotic argument with my husband who had kids young and was advising his 10 year old not to wait till he was old like 28 to have kids. My hubby is a childish idiot that thinks it better to have them young so you can get a good job when you’re old. Something about older people not being able to spend time with their kids because of their good jobs. I’m wondering what happens to teenagers kids. Do they have around the clock supervision? What about work for them? Do they suddenly all work from home? ….. I told you it was idiotic. Lol. You’re so right, the argument for it is pure stupidity.

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